Are you in an unhealthy relationship?

You may be in an unhealthy relationship if your boyfriend or girlfriend engages in any of the following behaviors:

Becomes easily angry when you make plans away from them.
Critiques the way you act, look, or dress.
Spies on your social networking sites, email accounts, journal entries, or texts.
Loses control of his/her temper after fights, sometimes breaking things or punching walls.
Punishes you after a fight by not talking to you or withholding affection.
Blames you for the problems that occur in his/her life.
Claims all the power in the relationship, making all decisions regarding what you do in your free time and who you can be in contact with.
Becomes extremely jealous if you talk to or hang out with someone else.
Tries to force you to go farther sexually than you wish to.
Threatens hurting you or leaving you when he/she is upset.
Controls your life in any way.
Lies to you or keeps important information from you.
Makes fun of your passions, interests, or opinions.

You feel less happy or less like yourself after being with your partner.
You find yourself afraid of your partner at times.
You have lost control over some part of your life, such as who your friends are, what activities you can do, or what you can wear.
You have to worry if your partner will become jealous every time you interact with another person.
Your friends and family have voiced concern over your relationship.