Dating Violence Dynamics – Sexual Violence

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• WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE

  The abuser controls a victim by:

  • Raping his/her victim (under Florida Law, rape is called sexual battery)
  • Exposing him/herself to the victim without consent
  • Forcing the victim to view pornographic videos, pictures, or other people having sex; restricting access to birth control by refusing to wear a condom; refusing to allow his victim to take birth control; or not allowing a victim to wear a condom.

• HOW IT FEELS FOR THE VICTIM

  When an abuser uses sexual violence to control a victim, a victim may experience:

  • Fear of leaving the abuser
  • Psychological trauma as a result of the abuse
  • Fear of the abuser or others
  • Shame, guilt, responsibility, or embarrassment
  • Feelings of helplessness
  • Loss of control of his/her own body
  • Fear of pressing charges

• IMPACT ON VICTIM

  Sexual violence can:

  • Cause problems focusing in school, which can lead to a decline in grades or withdrawals
  • Alienate victims from his/her friends, school groups, sorority/fraternity, or team
  • Cause unplanned pregnancies, sexually transmitted infections, or other injuries which conflict with education and the life of the victim

• CONSEQUENCES FOR ABUSER

  Dating violence is a crime. If you abuse a partner, you face:

  • A ruined reputation
  • Conviction and jail time
  • Expulsion or suspension from the university.
  • Suspension from sports teams
  • Disciplinary action from your fraternity or sorority
  • Alienation from friends and family
  • Costs from court fees and restitution