Dating Violence Dynamics – Physical Violence

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• WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE

  The abuser controls a victim by:

  • Hitting (punching, slapping, etc.)
  • Kicking
  • Choking or strangling
  • Biting
  • Holding down or restraining
  • Using a weapon (stabbing, shooting, hitting with a bat or stick)

• HOW IT FEELS FOR THE VICTIM

  When an abuser uses physical abuse to control a victim, a victim may experience:

  • Physical pain from injuries
  • Psychological trauma as a result of the attack or attacks
  • Fear of the abuser or others
  • Shame, guilt, responsibility, or embarrassment
  • Fear of leaving the abuser

• IMPACT ON VICTIM

  Physical abuse can:

  • Cause problems focusing in school, which can lead to a decline in grades or withdrawals
  • Alienate victims from their friends, family, school groups, sorority/fraternity, or team
  • Prevent students from participating in clubs or athletics
  • Cost students money in non-refunded tuition, housing relocation, and medical bills

• CONSEQUENCES FOR ABUSER

  Dating violence is a crime. If you abuse a partner, you face:

  • Conviction and jail time
  • Expulsion or suspension from the university
  • Suspension from sports teams
  • Disciplinary action from your fraternity or sorority
  • Alienation from friends and family
  • Costs from court fees and restitution
  • A ruined reputation